More tips on dying well

Frost on a skylight, Prue Kennard
Frost on a skylight, photo Prue Kennard cc-by-2.0

Be yourself, and in extremis
be yourself extremely.

For this is the way you will be remembered,
and this is the way you will die.


poem by rachel mcalpine cc-by-2.0

How to die

Punting on the River Avon, Christchurch, New Zealand

1. Be strong, be fit.

 2. Take your medicine.

 3. Love every love, every leaf in your life
even more than before. 

4. Complete your life work. Almost.
(Leave some for others to do.) 

5. Say welcome and goodbye
day by day, with lips and eyes.

6. Be gracious
to the lady bringing tea

7. Wait for your children
to arrive.

8. Stop the medication when you’re ready
and your dear ones all agree.

9. Insist on one last picnic
by the river, with beer.

10. Die when it’s time
and you’re tired.


poem by rachel mcalpine, photo of the River Avon in Christchurch New Zealand by Robert Cutts, both cc-by-2.0